So it's my birthday..........

So birthdays come and birthdays go...but....mine...most of my life..have well to put it lightly...have totally sucked....i could just complain all day about each one of my birthdays and how they always go wrong...i put birthdays high up on the list of "it has to be amazing" and most of the time get let down...i know its depressing.. haha..but... this year...oh yes this year i was hoping ever so hoping that my "golden" "star" "once in a life time" birthday would not be ruined!!! That is right!! I turned 23 years old on the 23rd of June!! So I am now pleased to say that I finally got a birthday that was worth bragging about and not feeling bad about it!!!! Here is my day!!! So as any pregnant women can say...sleep is important...not that you ever really get it..but its important..so i was hoping to be able to sleep in on my birthday..but that didnt happen..which was totally fine..because it become worth it!!! I rolled myself over (not as easy as it used to be) and tried to get up out of bed..i rub my little crusty eyes..(yess i'll admit to having eye crusties! i am not ashamed!) and before i could get out of bed someone...... a flash of something tall and blurry came to my aid...it was the chad!! He jumped on the bed way too energetic and handed me a card..the first thing that caught my eye was...it was green..so now its totally worth opening at this time of the morning.. and then i read...my dear wife and so on.....awww.. so then as i got out of bed i smelled it.....sausage cooking... oh man....totally worth getting out of bed now!!!! But before I could run and eat the whole pan of sausage..chad tells me to go open the front door.. I looked at him like he was crazy and i was like if there was anyone out there with a camera i was going to kill him...soo lucky chad got to live..no one was there and there was no camera..but....something pretty adorable on my door!! There were these cute little happy birthday decorations on my front door!!! How cute is that!!! So i come inside and give chad a hug telling him how cute that was..and he just looked at me like i didnt do it..and then i thought ...ok wow creepy who came to my house this morning knowing it was my birthday.. there is this weirdo chic that i always run into in my apartment complex and she calls herself "tricky Nicky"...lets just say...i have stories about her...many stories.. so i was pretty terrified "Tricky Nicky" had found out where i lived...but that horrible thought ended when chad put the most amazing breakfast sandwich in front of me at the table...oh my gosh!!!! 100 percent whole wheat english muffin with sausage, egg white mixed with spinach, and cheese!!!!!! oh pure heaven!!!!! so just that could of made my birthday the best!! I am a sucker for a breakfast sandwich..i am not sure why..but i am...i think it has something to do with those dumb mc d's commericals and those for denny's and ihop...they all get to me...i cant even take it anymore!!! i just want to run into ihop and say GIVE ME THAT CHEESE CAKE PANCAKE WITH STRAWBERRIES,WHIP CREAM, AND EVERYTHING AMAZING!!!!!! stop tempting me!!! But anyways....soo breakfast was good..and then i asked chad..ok well what should i wear what do i need to prepare myself for...all he said was..a t-shirt and pants..Really??? really chad..well...what kind of t-shirt??? i have all kinds of t-shirts!!!! all he said was...idk just a t-shirt..oh he is such a guy sometimes....i wish i could kidnap a girl and put her in the closet and let her come out and tell me which t-shirt i should wear!! So after that...i asked..well what kind of pants...jeans...or workout pants...and i actually got the answer i wanted..workout pants...perfect ok moving on.. so i am now prepared and ready to do whatever he had planned for me...and then there is a knock on the door...its RANDI!! oh so exciting to see my randi girl on my birthday lots of girl screams and hugs were exchanged!! chad just watched and i am sure walked away ....she got me a cute little shirt to wear and not the candle she was threatening to buy me...let me just say...if you have ever gotten me a candle for my birthday or any holiday.....you are either 1)...not my friend anymore now...or 2)...someone i now put on my hate list or 3). a sibling that thought it would be funny and it was not...haha..this is my theory ...small side story..once upon a time..when becca was a small girl...she liked a certain boy...it was christmas time and gifts were exchanged...becca being the sweet thoughtful girl created a beautiful gift (i pretty much forgot what i got him) that was pretty amazing..and the certain boy totally loved it..then it was time for becca to open her gift..it was wrapped very well..for a boy..(or at least i thought he wrapped it) and she found to her crushed surprise..this huge...old lady..vanilla smelling candle.. and all she did was look at it..no thought at all was put into this gift...and all the boy said was...i didnt know what to get you so my mom said get her a candle and she wrapped it for me...a CANDLE!!!!!!!! ok soo that started it...my hate for candles as gifts...you only get someone a candle if you dont know what to get them!! so now i am sure all of you are thinking...oh man..so and so just got me a candle for my birthday...well hate to break it to you but that is a bad friend and they didnt know what to get you ...haha..ok enough of my rant on candles i am just bitter that the dumb boy didnt do something more romantic...but moving on...soo randi was awesome and then she left and we were on our little way to jenni's house...we knocked on her door and my first words were..did you put that on my door...she looked at me and said no lol...i just had to know who it was...i couldnt let this act of kindness just go....but i guess i interrogated her enough to find out it wasnt her...soo we dropped off miss joy and chad and i were off on our way!! we start down the road and turn into this certain road..when it hits me...he is getting me a massage!!!!!! we walk into massage envy (which smelled really nice) and told them i was ready oh so ready for my prenatal massage!!! i was filling out the little paper work before my appointment and laughed probably out loud as they wanted me to check yes or no if i wanted some chic i didnt even know to massage my butt...haha...oh hello we arent THAT close yet...but then we got this little tour..and i started to get nervous...very little lighting...small little rooms with patted beds...no people in site..ya pretty much i told chad..well either i am going to die...or..well something else so you cant leave me.. he just laughed and went with the flow...i then asked the girl who was giving the tour pretty much the most important question...where is the potty..i need to use it and its something fierce!!!! so before i go into the potty i asked her what we do next and she just told me go where we were talking...(well ya we talked all through this creepy place) so after the potty (which was amazing) i looked at chad...and there was no one to be found any where...soo we went to one of their rooms and waited in there cause i just thought that was where we were supposed to be...we spent some time talking there lol haha..soo like 6 mins go by and chad and i are waiting in the chair in this small room in the corner that has like no lighting...i really had the urge to jump out of the room and scare the crap out of someone.haha..but i didnt...and then this lady comes in and looks at us weird..and i'm pretty sure we did scare her..and she said..what are you doing in here..and she just was like you are supposed to wait in the other area...oops.....so we got shown where we were supposed to wait haha...and then she came back and got us when the "room was ready" ...so she just said put your clothes on here and get under the blankets...i looked at chad and then asked the lady "so i am i supposed to be like naked in there or what " she told me with no emotion on her face at all "well some people do and some dont" Seriously!!! who trains these people...just be straight up with me!! naked or not!! come on!! so...i will not reveal what i was under those sheets..but...the massage was pretty much the most amazing thing ever!!!!!! i now claim no emotion girl my new best friend!! things i didnt now hurt...hurt and them magically went away..sooo magical! chad was pretty much asleep in the corner lol...what a good guy! afterwards..when we went to pay for it...they asked me if i wanted "gratuity" (umm whatever that is..ew!!) So i said umm no! and they looked at me shocked and i was just thinking...whatever you weirdos!!! and well come to find out...soon after.. they wanted us to tip the no emotion girl...oh man did i feel dumb after that..haha..opps..(note to self..never go to that massage envy again just in case we see no emotion girl and she wants to kill me for not giving her a tip and always give "gratuity") why cant people just speak english!! why couldnt they just said..Hey did you want to tip her?? Then we would not have had that problem!! oh well...soo anyways...on to more birthday stuff..soo lots of hugs for chad and kisses it was a great surprise being in the scary room lol.. but we picked up Joy and went home and I got all cute and was ready for the next part of the day!! We headed out on the highway and I see a sea of amazing restaurants!! mmm which one shall we go to!! and chad goes and does it again...parks at the cheesecake factory!! HELLO!! WINNING! So we go and get our little table and a high chair for miss Joy..she just likes to steal every one's food! And I am pretty stocked about the food!!! and Chad is cute and tells the girl that its my birthday and he wanted them to sing to me later..she was like oh ya ok....because...ok small story time...last year i went out to olive garden on my birthday and chad told them to sing to me,..and i dont know if i just dont look like the type that people want to sing happy birthday too but they forgot ....and I had to remind our waiter at the end of the dinner and he was like oh ...sorry..and that was it!! BOOO...soo i think chad was determined to have them sing to me this time!! and so we ordered our food...yess i ordered the spicy crispy chicken sandwich with sweet potato fried and ranch dressing to dip!! YUM YUM!! and well...lets just say we ate....and waited for my singing...as the girl came and asked if we needed boxes chad once again..said...its my wife's birthday today!!!!! she looks at me and says oh happy birthday!!! and walks away..wow...totally got the shaft once again..and she came back...with our food boxed...(all i was thinking was NO TIP and this time i really mean it!!!! haha) but she handed me...this pea side bowl with a dab of ice cream and a fluff of whipped cream and stuck a candle in it..(gee thanks) and then she walks off!!!! seriously no singing!! I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO SING ME HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! so chad and i kinda laugh.,and he looks at Joy and they sang me happy birthday..it was cute!! Joy loved saying happy birthday !! i loved it!! so we ordered a reese's cheese cake to go !! and went on our way!!! once we got home chad gave Joy a bag and said give this to mom...she totally didnt want to,....just a tired little baby...but i took the bag and read my super mom card..and laughed and agreed ..ya i am pretty super haha...and then i took out my present and i just laughed!!!!!!! "Joy" or shall we say daddy!!!! got me a new balance sports arm wallet!!! perfect for your CELL PHONE money cards and more!!! bahaha...sooo there is a story behind this...the other day..i went out running with randi...it was about 5:45pm and we had planned to run our 5 miles instead of 4 and get jamba juice on our way home...so i told chad it was going to be a bit longer than my usual run...and i never carry my phone when i dont take Joy...i dont like to carry anything but my water...and it kinda drives chad nuts...he worries a lot about when i got out there...he always thinks i am going to die or something..so..this particular day i didnt come home until 7pm..and i found him cooking dinner..with a very serious face...kinda reminded me of myself if i was worried about him lol ( i just pictured...chad in a flowered apron stirring dinner really mad saying..so where were you?? why didnt you call?? haha) and he clearly didnt think it was going to take me that long and was really worried..and he wished i would have just taken my phone,.but i said sorry and that i just dont like to carry things...soooo hence the present of the arm band that i can conveniently put my phone in...he was soo proud of it...hey!!! you dont have to carry it!!! its on your arm!! haha..he is so cute! So we put miss bean to bed and it was time for the CHEESECAKE!!!!!!!! and i got to pick out a movie!! yep thats right i picked out Twlight!! I am sure all chad was thinking was...after this cheesecake is eaten i plan on falling asleep on the couch...haha..but to my surprise again!!!!! after the cheese cake was eaten he pressed pause on the movie!! before i could complain he grabbed our plates and told me to cover my eyes!! (all i thought was..he really wants to get out of watching this movie with me!) and he begins to ask me how we first met and what the first christmas present he got me in high school was..and here i am talking to him still with my eyes covered..and the first christmas present he got me was a really pretty gold anklet with sliver hearts and he even put it on my ankle! it was soo cute..cause back then i loved wearing anklets and toe rings and what not, and i ended up breaking my anklet he got me and never had it fixed.. it was sad...and he explained that he has always wanted to replace it..and then he told me to open my eyes..and there was a very pretty sliver box in front of me!!!! and inside was the most beautiful gold anklet that he put on my (not yet swollen) ankle! (hopefully i dont break this one with my soon to be swollen ankles!!) and it was pretty much the most romantic thing ever!!! 50 gold stars for chad!! so there ya have it!!!! the best birthday ever!!!!! I have no complaints and i am totally thankful for my wonderful husband who puts up with me and made my day very special and let me know how much he loved me!!! soo cute!!! on the downside....his birthday is in August...now i have to try to top this...oh man...wish me luck!!!